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" Oh baby you should go and love yourself". - Love yourself, Justin Beiber -

For nothing being something. Alih alih menyakiti diri dengan hal-hal yang sekiranya hanya merugikan diri sendiri. Penggalan kalimat beiber diatas ada benarnya juga. Why you have to hurt yourself ? Just try go and love yourself. Karena hidup tidak selamanya hanya berkutat pada sesuatu yang selalu menyenangkan, sekali waktu hal yang tidak menyenangkan juga ada untuk mencobai seberapa kuat kita mampu tahan uji untuk leveling up dalam hidup.

"Kita tidak pernah bisa menyenangkan semua orang, dan tidak semua orang itu menyenangkan."
Setidaknya selalu ada yang bisa dipelajari dari sisa kejadian yang terjadi dalam hidup, seberapa beratpun masalah yang kita hadapi, selalu meninggalkan bekas entah positif atau negatif. Terkadang berpikir positif adalah satu cara dimana kita terhindar dari pengaruh buruk dari berpikir akibat kemungkinan bahkan sebab dari masalah yang kita hadapi, Oh baby you should go and love yourself. 
Sebagian kecil orang yang bahagia dengan apa yang kamu lakukan, bersyukurlah. Sebagian besar orang bahagia dengan apa yang kamu perbuat, beryukurlah karena tidak mungkin semua orang akan bahagia denganmu disaat yang sama. Duri dalam daging? banyak sekali. Tapi kamu bisa melepehkan satu-persatu agar itu tidak menyakitimu. Menjadi orang yang menyenangkan memang asik, tapi tidak semua berpikir seperti apa yang kamu pikirkan. Adakalanya kamu hanya perlu mengabaikan dan tidak peduli. Yap karena "Kita tidak pernah bisa menyenangkan semua orang, dan tidak semua orang itu menyenangkan."

Dan akhir kata; Tetaplah menjadi baik, jika beruntung kamu akan menemukan orang baik. Jika tidak, kamu akan ditemukan orang baik.

by sela 4 menit sebelum makan siang

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